I was just wondering, do people change or not ? Don't know how this even came up to my mind but i did think a lot and couldn't really decide which one is the right answer.. or is there even a right answer at all ?
Ok here we go, we born, grow up then there is this actual living part before we die. Why i said it's the only part that we live? Well i think it's because, the explanation of the live word is a little different for me. I mean living as a humanbeing. the life itself is like evolution, when we first born. we are a total parasite then we get to being a child where we still are a parasite but now with dreams. Dreams of growing up, dreams of doing stuff on our own, dreams of "living" then we get to be a teenager where we are totally fucked up trying to find who the hell we are. It's not just because a fucking chemistry and hormones. We have these dreams in our hand surrounding us, shaping us like a play-doh. Or.. well trying to shape us.. Trying ; because we meet another thing that tries to shape us. Environment. That's exactly why we are angry and fucked up. We see everything as they're trying to intrude our most intimate and the only and only thing that will belong to just ourself. Our personality.
So from this we can assume we don't want to change. Right ? Whatever let's just go on.
I watched a guy talking about something i dont really care at the moment but the speech was kinda backing up my case. He asks some people at different ages saying " let's stop the wars"
He says it to his little daughter and the answer is " Yeah ! Let's do it pa ! "
He says it to his nephew who is a teenager. and the answer is still positive.. " Yeah, lets find out how we can do it and then do it "
Then he goes on to his friend which is around 40s .. the answer is " Get the fuck off ! "
And the last one is his mother .. she doesn't even care about the idea and says " Stop these crappy thoughts and get a real job."
Why are these all different ? Is it because they changed ? Then people should be getting cruel in years. Or is it because their environment changed ? Makes more sense i guess ?
On the other hand. Human never stops wanting stuff, never stop evolving. So this could lead a person to actually want to change. This could be for a lot of reason. make more money, get laid or whatever he thinks he will be happier when he has that, and they do think about changing their personality or end up changing personality because of the reasons that lead the person want to have that thing which will make him happier. Another outside effect to persons mind.. but we need to ignore it here because as i said people can think about just changing without any outside effect.
By the way i just realized i just said we get angry in teenage only. well it's not like that any time in our life we do get angry and teact to that (usually harsh) when someone or something tries to intrude our personality or tries to change it.. easy example; our relationships..
Thus far ... we got nothing .. i can't even decide if people wants to change or not.
Though i am sure about one thing. People, do want to have a reminder or a connection to who they were before. like it can be a tattoo, or some people fill that blank with their diaries.
Here comes an idea.. Maybe people really want to change but they're just scared ? And maybe those reminders, connectors just help them with this ? So they always know that there is a going back aswell when they screw up. they always carry that chance with themselves so they are not scared of changing anymore..
So.. here is where i ve come .. people change when they re over themselves. When they beat the scare that holds them back from changing.
ok thats it.. cya